What you need to do
Here are the key things you need to take care of after someone has died. It’s actually quite straightforward so try not to get stressed. Just do one thing at a time and if you need any help please speak to us.
The Medical Certificate (‘Medical Certificate of Cause of Death’) is the official record of the cause of someone’s death and you will need it in order to register the death (see next step). It also has a Formal Notice attached to it which confirms that the doctor has signed the medical certificate (or referred the death to the coroner) and explains how to get the death registered.
The certificate will be signed by a doctor, normally either the GP who attended the person before death or the hospital doctor (in which case the hospital bereavement office / patient affairs office will organise this for you). It is normally provided in a sealed envelope addressed to the Registrar of Births, Deaths and Marriages so you can take it along with you when you register the death (which you should do within 5 days of the death occurring).
In cases where the death has been reported to a coroner, the process is a little more complicated. If the cause of death was clear, the coroner will simply issue a certificate to the registrar stating a post-mortem isn’t needed. Only in rare cases will there be an inquest.
You need to register the death at a Register Office (‘Registrar of Births, Deaths and Marriages’) within five days of the death occurring. You should choose the Register Office closest to where the person died – find your local register office here.
You will need to bring along the following documentation:
- the Medical Certificate (see previous step)
- any ID documentation for the deceased (e.g. utility bill, NHS medical card)
- any official certificates for the deceased (e.g. birth certificate, marriage certificate)
The registrar will also ask for certain additional details, such as place and date of birth, place and date of death, last address and occupation of the deceased. They will also need the full name, date of birth and occupation of their spouse.
The Registrar will then provide you with the following:
- the Death Certificate which you will need for the funeral to take place as well as for settling their affairs, so it’s a good idea to buy extra copies at the time
- the Certificate for Burial or Cremation (a green square form known as ‘the Green Form’) which you should hand to us if we are organisation the cremation for you
- a Tell Us Once reference number to access the Tell Us Once online service which makes it easy to report a death to most government organisations in one go
If the death has been reported to a coroner you can’t register the death until the coroner gives permission.
For contact details of local register offices in Richmond, Kingston, Surrey and SW London read our blog Registering a death at a register office.
If you are planning to have the body cremated, there are certain forms you will need to obtain. If the death occurred at a hospital, the hospital’s bereavement office or patient affairs office will normally sort this out for you.
- Cremation Forms 4 and 5 * – these are standard forms signed by two doctors (normally the doctor who signed the medical certificate will complete Cremation Form 4 (Certificate of Medical Attendant) and a second doctor will complete Cremation Form 5 (Confirmatory Certificate). The cost for this is £82 per form, so a total fee of £164 is payable for both forms.
- Authorisation or Release Form (also known as the ‘Yellow form’). This is issued by the hospital bereavement office if the body is being held at the hospital mortuary.
If we are organising the cremation, we are happy to help you with this process, including completion of Cremation Form 1 (‘Application for cremation of the body of a person who has died’). We will then deliver the cremation forms to the crematorium in advance.
* If the death was reported to HM Coroner and there has been a post mortem examination (with or without an inquest), then Cremation Form 6 (Corners Certificate) replaces Cremation Forms 4 and 5. There is no charge for this and so the doctors’ fees of £164 do not apply in this case.
So far we have covered the practical steps you need to take after someone has died. These are standard processes and legal formalities that need to be completed before the funeral can go ahead.
The task of arranging the funeral is where things get personal. It is all about respecting the wishes of your loved one and organising it in a way that feels right for you and your family.
Some people want a traditional funeral, with a hearse, procession, funeral service and pallbearers, followed by the burial or cremation. Others prefer to have a more simple, yet no less meaningful, cremation service with a smaller group of mourners and then take their time to organise a commemoration of the person’s life at a later date.
Visiting a traditional high street funeral director is certainly far from your only option. At White Rose we can help you organise a No Fuss Cremation, Personalised Funeral or a separate Celebration of Life service that respects and commemorates the life of your loved one.
We are happy to visit you at home to talk through your wishes and explain how we can help to organise things for you. Please get in touch to request a home visit or read more about Arranging a Funeral.
Useful links:
Funeral suppliers
Funeral directors
Funeral products
Coffins
Cremation Urns
Cremated remains ideas
Funeral flowers
You can find more in-depth information about what to do when someone dies at our sister website independentfuneral.co.uk including a detailed step-by-step guide.
There’s also plenty of useful information online to help guide you through this process. Here we have provided links to external websites for your convenience in accordance with our privacy policy – but if you need any help with planning a funeral or cremation, please do contact us.