Death, in its simplest terms, is returning to the earth we came from. So it seems fit that someone who cared so fervently about Mother Nature should have a send-off that revolves around planet earth.
Eco funerals are growing in popularity for those who want to celebrate the impact they had in life, while minimising the footprint of the occasion on our environment. Allow us to explore how an eco theme can be pulled off, and what it might entail…
A green route of departure
For tree lovers and flower worshippers, the thought of being commemorated in a traditional coffin is enough to make them turn in, well… you get the picture. Modern designs are built to withstand degradation, but this doesn’t allow for plants and soil to break down their material components.
Cardboard and natural coffins like wicker, banana leaf or wool are not only environmentally friendly; they are also an affordable alternative to their solid wood cousins. Meanwhile, anyone opting for cremation can arrange to have their ashes stored in a special, naturally-sourced urn, perhaps scattered in a place of rural beauty. Speaking of which…
Those in tune with the environment are likely to want their funeral to take place outdoors. This is perfectly fine, because churches and crematoriums aren’t for everybody – in fact, attendees could be moved to a much greater degree by a breeze sighing through a leafy canopy, or the glittering surface of a stream by an embankment.
Scout plenty of locations before everything is finalised. It could be a spot that’s special to you or your loved one, somewhere they always turned to for calm and inspiration. But if not, then a picturesque setting can be found at many natural burial grounds.
Dress, food and entertainment
It’s only right to carry the eco ethos through other aspects of the memorial service and wake. We’re talking about an organic buffet selection, meat-free snacks, and potentially an advance suggestion for guests to avoid formal attire.
Tear up the rulebook entirely if you wish: select for a summery dress code that symbolises the spirit of nature you or your relative was so enraptured by. For the end of the ceremony, research snippets of naturalistic poetry to read aloud – Byron, Shelley and Robert Frost are good starting points.
Sowing the seeds of memory
Keepsake gifts for guests are ideal for sharing the lasting message of what you or your loved one stood for. For example recyclable paper birds filled with seeds, one for each pair of hands. Everyone can plant them in their garden and watch the awe-inducing process of life rearing up before them over time, keeping the departed close to heart and home.
There’s great humility, care and adoration in being environmentally conscious, and such qualities deserve a funeral that makes nature’s halo shine ever brighter. Planning a funeral for a nature lover? Take a look at our natural burial options.
